Do you know where to put your mask while dining?
Etiquette changes as society changes, and mask etiquette is something that should now be in your social skills toolbox (who would have ever guessed!). Let’s talk about dining. If you are able to grab a meal at your favorite restaurant, don’t forget your mask! Once you are seated and the food is served, where should you place your mask while eating?
According to the Center for Disease Control, wearing a mask creates a physical barrier that collects virus-containing respiratory droplets. In other words, your mask is dirty! Avoid placing used masks on the table to minimize the spread of germs. Likewise, you should not put your keys, glasses, or cell phone on the table.
Instead, place your mask in your handbag, pocket, or on your lap underneath your napkin. Bon appétit!
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Do you know where to stand on an elevator?
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Do you know how to handle a stressful COVID-19 encounter?
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Do you know how to smile with your eyes?
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Do you know how to NOT shake hands?
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Do you remember basic phone etiquette?
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Do you know how to stay connected in a time of social distancing?
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Do you know how to present a business card?
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Do you know how to eat soup? (hint: it’s eaten differently than cereal!)
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Do you know who should return a dropped call?
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Do you know which water glass is yours?
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Do you send a thank you note for a host gift? (and what is a host gift?)
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Do you know who should initiate a handshake?
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Do you know where to place your name tag?
According to Dale Carnegie, “A person’s name is, to that person, the sweetest and most important sound in any language.” Our names matter. Unfortunately, learning and remembering a person’s name does not come easily to most people. A name tag lets people see your name in print, which increases the likelihood that they remember it. Did you know that there is a proper place to wear your name tag? Learn where to place your name tag (and why!) in this tip!read more
Did you know that a third piece can boost your authority?
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Do you know who should NOT drink during a toast?
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Did you know that it pays to be kind?
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Do you know how to choose clothing that flatters your body?
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Did you know that “Miss” and “Mrs.” should not be used in business?
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Do you know the Rule of Ten?
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Do you know how to write a belated thank you note?
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Did you know that kids should not go first?
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Did you know that you do not always have to tip when asked?
The clerk at your favorite bakery, food truck, or coffee shop swipes your credit card and spins an electronic screen around that asks whether you want to tip. Do you select 15%, 20%, or 25% for being handed a pre-made sandwich? Or do you select “no tip” under the awkward gaze of the clerk? Learn how to respond to electronic tip requests in this tip!read more
Did you know that there is a way to handle food requirements at an event?
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Did you know that personal space extends from 1.5 to 4 feet away?
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Did you know that both men and women should rise when others join the table?
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Did you know that airplane middle seats enjoy special rights?
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Did you know that there is a polite way to spit out food?
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Did you know that you should tip hotel housekeeping every day?
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Did you know that you do not have to answer every question you are asked?
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Did you know that there is a proper place to take a phone call?
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Did you know that the rules for who should pay on a first date have changed?
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Did you know that saying thank you can transform your career?
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Did you know that everyone should RSVP, but only about 30% of people do?
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Did you know that we touch our phones 2,617 times a day?
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Did you know that you can wear white after Labor Day?
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Did you know that there is a proper time within which you should send a thank you note?
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